Men and women approach 1st dates entirely different. When a man is on a first date he is usually hoping that it will eventually lead to sex and in the meantime he will try and act interested in what she is saying until sex occurs.

Meanwhile most women use the first date as a test phase to see if you are "relationship material." If you pass the test then it is only a matter of how long she waits before having sex with her "boyfriend".

However, the interesting thing about women is a man who doesn't play along and answer her test questions and instead chooses to create attraction inside of her. Will score much sooner and if he wants can have a "relationship" with her even if he doesn't qualify as "relationship material".

Now a side benefit that a man who dates women with the intent of building attraction inside her is, that women who are cold, boring, and controlling; and who makes the life of any man they are with miserable. In general will be repelled by this technique and will leave very quickly.

The important point to remember is that when woman asks you a question for the most part it is so they can make assumptions about the type of man that you are.

Right are wrong, good or bad, once a woman forms an opinion about you its pretty tough to get her to change it.

However, if instead of answering her questions allowing her to form an opinion about you, ask her questions that cause her to remember a time when she felt attraction or imagined it. Even if she doesn't answer your questions and continues to try and make you answer hers.

In her mind she will be answering the question and feeling attraction which will lead to her creating in her mind attract for you; which is what your goal should be in the first place.